Can’t stop, won’t stop

Well, it's all happening. I apologize about the lack of updates but between the busyness and the intense emotions and trying to wrap things up at work, I just haven't been able to find the time. But, we are fully aboard the moving across the country train! I put my notice in at work, told... Continue Reading →


Too much, never enough

There nothing I can say about the massacre of 50 LGBTQ people of color that hasn't already been said better, more eloquently, with more thoughtfulness. So why try, right? Maybe I'm grateful to live in the era of social media where sharing the eloquence of others is so very, very easy. Like almost every other... Continue Reading →

The details.

I figured I'd give you all more details, because I am REALLY excited/nervous/terrified but there aren't many folks I can talk to about it right now, as a plan for the telling must be developed and crafted. It feels so surreal. Last Tuesday, L and I were sobbing our little hearts out about the dream... Continue Reading →


The job I applied for at the Seattle public health department because L was a finalist just called me for an interview. The pay range is high enough that I'm going to go for it.  

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